Allowing yourselves to miss each other is a huge tool. If you’ve got your own things going on, it’s going to make it easier for you both to crave each other’s presence, and you’re going to have a lot more to talk about when you’re back in the same place again.
Make sure you have a full schedule with people and activities that bring you joy because this is also going to help you to feel better about your own life. You’re going to be feeling more confident and excited about your life, and this makes you that much more magnetic!
How to keep things interesting in a relationship: Making time
We all live such busy lives these days that it becomes dangerously easy to neglect spending quality time together with our significant others. So one of the best ways to keep your relationship interesting is to carve out time to spend together, one on one. Not with the kids, not with your friends, not with your family, but one on one.
Even if it’s once or twice a month, make time in your schedules for date night, and try to think of a new place to go to each time. You can do dinner together, but it’s even better if you’re able to come up with new things to try out like gallery openings, seeing a play, taking a long bike ride, having a picnic, or even organizing a night in a hotel!
Listen to your partner when you want things to be interesting
Make sure that you listen to each other and really pay attention to what kinds of things would make both of you happy. The more your partner feels heard, the more respected they will feel and in turn, they will feel more attracted to you. This will help you to set a pretty great foundation for keeping your relationship interesting.
So make sure that you remember the big picture, why you’re together and what you are building. Make a conscious effort to be aware of your partner’s needs and hear them out, and this will help with communication between you. Relate and empathize with each other.
And in addition to this, it’s very beneficial to a relationship to solve any small issues that arise quickly, and learn to accept the fundamental differences that won’t change.
By paying attention to these elements, you’re going to be able to constantly reinvent your relationship and keep it feeling exciting and fresh.
Healthy and interesting relationships can withstand the test of time
Your relationship is not doomed to fizzle out. All you need to do is become proactive, listen to your partner’s needs, and make an effort to introduce new elements into the relationship, carve out quality time spent together, and do things that you both enjoy doing. Make time for romance and spontaneity, surprise each other, enjoy the present moment and plan exciting things for the future!
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