Fortunately, for every problem, there is a solution and in this case, there are multiple solutions!
When you are seeing signs your wife isn’t sexually attracted to you, the first thing you’re going to have to do is to take a step back. You shouldn’t do anything that would make you look clingy, needy or desperate. I cannot stress the importance of this enough! If your wife feels like you’re begging her for sex, she’s going to be completely turned off and will pull even further away.
So the very first thing we need to talk about is the importance of space. You have to give her some space so that she doesn’t feel suffocated, but also so that you give her the opportunity to start to crave your presence.
Just like you, a woman enjoys the chase. She likes having a man that she finds inspiring and magnetic, so you have to give her the space to crave being closer to you. If you’re spending every waking moment together and you’re in essence begging her for sex, you’re not going to get the result you’re hoping for.
So instead, put some space between you so that you can focus on becoming the best version of yourself. Something that many people don’t understand is that sexual attraction is not about the physical element. Yes, it plays a part, but it is not the main element at play here. It’s about Attraction.
Attraction in the emotional, chemistry-between-two-people sense of the word. A vital ingredient is self-confidence, but also space to allow someone to miss you. It needs to be combined with a lifestyle that you’re proud of and that other people would want to be a part of. So as you allow for some space in your relationship, spend time going to the gym, pay attention to your appearance, make sure that you devote time to your personal and professional goals, fill up your schedule with people and things that bring you joy, and really work on becoming the 2.0 version of yourself!
This will inevitably attract your wife and help her to see you in a new light!
And remember the importance of body language. Stand up tall, have a confident tone of voice, smile and be self-assured and at ease. You want her to see your charisma.
Physical attraction is rooted in how you see yourself and how you feel about yourself. So if you want your wife to find you attractive again, you have to make sure that you find yourself attractive, too.
This is the foundation and the key to success.