How to make your wife want you: The best techniques
I just went over the importance of making sure that your wife feels important to you, and this should be the foundation of your approach. There are however other tips and tools that will serve you as well, and let’s not forget the fact that actions speak louder than words.
So if you want to make your wife want you, and especially if you’ve found yourself thinking, “My wife loves me but doesn’t desire me,” I encourage you to start to do the following things. You can begin incorporating these solutions into your daily life starting today, and you will see a sizable shift!
My wife has no desire for sex, what can I do?
Another client came to me asking about how he can reignite his wife’s desire to be intimate with him, and I explained that in addition to doing things for her, he needed to be doing things for himself as well.
For example, it’s crucial that you take care of yourself physically. Not only will this make you more sexually attractive, it’s also going to boost your sense of self confidence. The better you feel about yourself, the easier it will be to make your wife want you.
So make sure that you carve out time to hit the gym, make an effort to eat a healthy diet, present yourself well in terms of your clothing and your personal hygiene, and always put your best foot forward. Your wife will notice this, and it will inevitably make you more attractive in her eyes.
How to get your wife in the mood: Surprise her
When the routine settles in to your relationship, make sure that you break out of it! ‘
You know your wife better than anyone, so you know what she likes, what she wants… and what she wouldn’t expect from you! You can use this to your advantage and come up with surprises for her that can make her feel loved, but also excited about spending time with you.
An idea would be to ask her to meet you on a Friday night at an address, and when she arrives she realizes that it’s a hotel room that you’ve booked for the evening. Wait for her with a bottle of champagne and enjoy your night alone together. You can reconnect and make her feel special by going out of your way to do something she wouldn’t expect!
Give her space when you want your wife to want you
People often don’t realize that if they don’t give their wife space to miss and desire them, then the constant monotony of their relationship will damage the intimacy.
On the other hand, if you give yourselves the opportunity to miss each other by giving each other space and by focusing on elements of your own personal lives, it will become much easier to feel excited about reuniting.
So be careful to never suffocate your wife or act needy and clingy. I really want to stress the importance of never making her feel like you’re begging for sex. It’s not attractive and it puts you in a position of weakness, and she’s not going to find it appealing. Instead, focus on presenting yourself in a way that would make her see you as someone confident, who listens to her and can anticipate her needs, and knows how to surprise her.