When a man is feeling insecure, it’s important for him to know that there are things that he can do to make himself feel better as well. It’s not just all about what YOU can do for him. He needs to be able to bring happiness into his own life, otherwise the relationship will start to become imbalanced.
So here are few things that your man can start doing:
• Focusing on the things he does well
Encourage your man to think about what he excels at, and encourage him to put himself in situations where he knows he’ll be able to shine. For example, if he happens to be a great breakdancer, he can start taking dance classes and have all kinds of fun doing something he loves and is good at. The more he sees himself shine, the more his confidence levels will rise.
• Cultivating gratitude and positivity
It’s really easy to get into our heads and fixate on our insecurities and things that make us unhappy, but an incredible shift happens when you start making a conscious effort to focus on the good. It puts you in a very different mindset and makes you feel much better about yourself and your life.
• Surrounding himself with people that make him feel good
This goes hand in hand with my previous point. If your man can limit his interactions with negative people or individuals that make him feel less than, it’s going to be a lot easier to start feeling better.
• Finding joy in being more independent
He needs to be more independent and focus on things that specifically bring him joy, even if you, his partner, don’t want to join in! You shouldn’t need to do everything together, and this is the type of thing that can really reinforce a relationship!
So he needs to be able to challenge himself and step outside of his comfort zone. The more he can do this, the happier he will feel and the more attractive he will be to you. He could even start by making a bucket list for himself!
An insecure man in love can become secure when you two work together
So like I said, it all boils down to confidence. If you can zero in on where these feelings of insecurity are stemming from, how much of it you’re responsible for and what it within your control, then you can start to work on implementing actions in your daily life that let him know that he’s important to you and that he’s on your mind. If you want to dive deeper into how to overcome a lack of self confidence, I encourage you to check out our product on getting rid of insecurity once and for all! You can access it by clicking here.
He also needs to work on overcoming insecurity on his own, which he can do by working on becoming more independent and proud of what he brings to the table!
So if you’ve seen the signs of an insecure man in a relationship because he’s controlling, doesn’t believe in himself and belittles himself, compares himself to others all the time, and doesn’t trust you when he should, don’t panic. This can change if both of you are willing to make an effort. It’s not going to get fixed overnight, but little by little, you can show this man that he can trust you and this relationship, that you’re with him for a reason, and that he isn’t at risk for losing you all the time.
Sometimes people really struggle because of something that happened to them in the past, but as time goes on and they have new experiences, the good experiences start to outweigh the bad, and their insecurities start to fade away. It’s just a question of being proactive about it! Don’t just sit back on the couch and wait for things to change on their own. I always remind my clients that they’re in charge of a lot more than they might realize.
So remember, we are here to help you every step of the way so if you need help showing your partner that he has no reason to worry so that you can bring more lightness and balance to your relationship, all you have to do is click here. Join the Happily Committed Project and transform your relationship in a meaningful and dignified way!
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I sincerely wish you nothing but the best in life and love,
Your coach when you see the signs of an insecure man in love,