Whether you’re trying to make your partner want you again or you’re trying to attract someone new, there are a couple elements to keep in mind that will help you reach your goal as fast as possible! I’ve been working with people for many years now in order to give them the confidence they needed in love, and I wanted to write this article for you today on how to make him want you again!
This is such a common topic that I feel it warrants its very own article, and I will go over some of the biggest tips and tools that will help you attract or re attract the man you want! It’s very easy to overthink and panic when you want someone to want you, but at the end of the day it really boils down to self confidence.
If you can develop a solid sense of self confidence, you will begin to attract people like moths to a flame.
So let’s take a look at how to build your self confidence so that this man is drawn to you like a magnet!
How to make him want you: The most important thing to remember
As I began saying above, the key to making a man want you is a solid sense of self confidence. You have to feel confident in what you bring to the table, who you are, and how you love yourself. I know that for many people, that is easier said than done, but anyone can make changes.
In fact, I just worked with a man named Joseph who was in his later 40s. He and his wife, Elena, had been married for fifteen years, but as the years went on, the relationship lost its luster.
They stopped being friends a long time ago and they had started to just coast through life as roommates living under the same roof. They were focused on their kids, their careers, their friends, and their hobbies, but they weren’t focusing on each other.
Joseph came to me for help because he was worried that too much time had passed and wasn’t confident that he had what it took.
He had said, “I don’t know how to make her want me anymore because I feel like it’s been so long since we’ve felt that romantic connection.” It’s true that they had completely neglected each other and their relationship.
The disconnect between them had become especially apparent when they’d be on vacation together because they would butt heads over really trivial things. It was clear that there was some resentment between the two of them because their relationship had not been nurtured.
They had built separate lives under the same roof, so we have started working on making changes in Joseph’s personal life that are restoring the bond and attraction between them. Just this morning Joseph emailed me to say that his wife had proposed that they go away on a romantic getaway this weekend, just the two of them, because she was craving alone time with him – which is something that has not happened in a very, very long time.
Joseph is on the right track towards restoring his marriage and I’d like to go over some of the same things I explored with him with you…
How to keep a guy interested: the key to success!
When it comes to knowing how to make him want you, it all starts with you. If you don’t find yourself and your life attractive, how do you expect someone else to? This is why I keep stressing the importance of self confidence.
Whether you want to figure out how to make him want you sexually or how to make him miss you and want you back, we need to look at how you can make changes in your own life that will make you feel more attractive.
So let’s take a look at how exactly to do this:
If you’re already together, making him want you is not uncharted territory
If you are working on making your current partner want you again, I want you to remember that you have succeeded in doing this before! This is not uncharted territory at all, so you’ve just got to take some time to think about what attracted your partner to you in the first place.
• What did your life look like?
• How did you fill your schedule?
• What kinds of things were you doing for yourself?
Think about what kind of projects and hobbies you were making time for that you stopped prioritizing. What kind of people were you spending time with? How busy were you?
If you’re trying to make your current partner attracted to you again, it’s important to remember what attracted them to you in the first place. Where you busier then? More physically active? Did you have less time for him?
Oftentimes a relationship will take center stage in a person’s life and they end up losing track of all the things they were doing before. In turn, this makes them way too available to their partner, and this makes the mystery disappear. Men love a sense of excitement, and they love to feel like their partner is a prize.
If he feels that you are constantly readily available to him, it becomes dangerously easy for him to take you for granted.
When it comes to male psychology and how to make him want you, you’ve got to remember that men are hunters. So, if you don’t present an exciting challenge because you’ve got your own things going on, he might drift away.
Just remember what you were like when he fell for you the first time around, how busy you were, and reintroduce those elements into your current relationship, and he will start to want you again.
How to get a new guy to like you and want you
If you are interested in someone and you’re hoping to make him want you, then you need to approach the situation with a sense of assertiveness. Like I said above, men are attracted to challenges, so if he feels that you’re too easy to “get,” he’ll be less interested.
He wants to hunt and view you as a prize that is hard to attain. Once he recognizes that you’re a prize, he will want you.
So make sure that you’re confident in what you bring to the table and that he sees that you are something special. The easiest way to do this is to set goals for yourself that you know you can accomplish, put yourself in situations where it’s easy to shine, and go out of your way to make YOURSELF happy.
Don’t bend over backwards for this guy and don’t be at his beck and call. Let him know that if you have the time, you might see him. You’re just so busy with so many interesting things going on!
How to make him want you back after a breakup
If you’ve broken up with the person you love and you want to know how to make him miss you and want you back, then it’s time to zero in on why the breakup fell apart and what changes you need to make in your personal life.
There is always a reason behind a breakup, so it’s imperative that you make a conscious effort to pinpoint what exactly needs to change in order for him to want you back. If you would like more detailed information on how to make a man want you back, I encourage you to click here.
The biggest thing to remember is that if your ex left you, it means that he doubted your overall ability to make him happy in the longrun, and he’s not going to want to step back into the same relationship that you had before because you both already know how that ended.
He needs to see you as an exciting challenge, and the new and improved version of the person he fell in love with at the beginning of your relationship!
More ways to make a man want you at any stage of your relationship!
Making a guy want you becomes easy when you want yourself. That might sound a little funny, but the more you are attracted to yourself and the life you lead, the easier it becomes for others to find you attractive as well.
So as you’re working on how to be interesting and how to make this guy want you, keep the following elements in mind:
• Having a firm set of values
Make sure that you know your set of values. If you don’t, now would be a good time to explore them. This will help boost your sense of self confidence and it will make you stay true to your morals. This will ensure that you don’t wind up in situations that damage your sense of wellbeing. In addition to this, he will admire how you hold yourself and how you value yourself.
• Self care
When you want someone to want you, you need to make sure that you’re taking care of yourself mentally and physically. This doesn’t mean that you need to look like a Victoria’s Secret model in order to make a man want you; it means that you need to feel good. Take time to pamper yourself, never neglect hygiene and self care, and make sure you go out of your way to make yourself feel good.
• Don’t be needy or clingy
When you want to attract a man, be careful to never showcase neediness or a desperate need to see him. The moment he feels that you’re clingy or desperate, he’s going to run in the opposite direction. Make sure you check in with yourself and that you’re ok with not texting him every single day, and give him space to breathe. You need space to breathe and prioritize your well being as well!
• Never neglect your goals
Many people have a bad habit of neglecting their own personal and professional goals when they’re interested in a person or are investing in a relationship, but this does not make them more attractive in their partner’s eyes. There is something very attractive about being ambitious, so don’t ever neglect your goals!
How to keep a guy interested by being interested in your own life
It might sound counter intuitive, but the key to making him want you is wanting yourself and loving your own life. It is the recipe for success.
Just remember that if you want to make him want you, keep a man or get a man, you’ve got to:
⁃ Remember what attracted him to you in the first place if you’re already together
⁃ Have a clear sense of confidence and assertiveness
⁃ Make sure you have a firm set of values
⁃ Prioritize your own wellbeing and self care
⁃ Be the woman you’ve always wanted to be
⁃ Don’t showcase any neediness or clinginess, and make sure you let the relationship breathe
⁃ Never neglect your own goals
We are here to help you every step of the way, so please don’t hesitate to reach out. Join the Happily Committed Project to transform your relationship in a meaningful and dignified way, or make the person you want fall for you! You can also leave any comments or questions you may have in the comments section below and it would be our pleasure to personally respond to you. I also encourage you to check out or special product designed to help you master the art of attraction and make this man become completely addicted to you! All you have to do is click here to access it.
Wishing you all the best in life and love,
Your coach when you want to know how to make him want you