In many cases, people lose track of themselves as the relationship takes center stage of their lives. This means that they lose track of their passions and hobbies, their friends and family, their personal and professional goals, and so on and so forth.
It’s a common mistake but it can lead to problems in the relationship. Suddenly there is an imbalance and the exciting feeling that existed in the beginning of the relationship begins to disappear. Many people don’t realize that a person’s independence is one of their most attractive qualities.
So I encourage you to live with purpose, and don’t allow your happiness or your feelings of fulfillment to depend on your boyfriend. You need to make sure that you are able to find happiness in your life without him – especially because if you allow your happiness to depend on your partner, it puts an inappropriate amount of pressure on their shoulders for something that should not be their responsibility. The result of this is that it can pull you apart and make him crave space and time away from you.
So even if you are in a serious relationship, make sure you have an active social life, make sure you spend ample time with friends and family members that make you happy, go out and explore new restaurants, venues, galleries, and bars in your town, and carve out time for your passions and hobbies. Think about all the things that got placed on the back burner as this relationship started to develop, and if you start to fill your schedule with things that bring you joy, he will be reminded of the person he felt for and he will miss you too. The best love advice always boils down to inspiring your partner. You want him to look at you and think, “Wow, there is so much joy that surrounds her – I want to be part of that!”
To make your man miss you and fall for you all over again, make sure that you feel confident. Be desirable, irresistible, and avoid negativity. If you feel that your self-confidence could use a boost, don’t hesitate to get active at the gym or give yourself a makeover that makes you feel like the new and improved version of yourself! It is important that you feel sexy and attractive. You can even set aside an afternoon to get yourself some new lingerie and surprise him!
Confidence and well-being are extremely attractive, and they are traits that attract people like moths to a flame. Your boyfriend will be most susceptible to this because he has access to you on a daily basis. In other words, your boyfriend has first row seats to the type of life that you are living, so make it count!
The importance of space when you want a guy to miss you
As I said above, time apart is important. A person cannot miss you if they are not given the opportunity to miss you. I know you want him to call you and tell you he wants to see you right now, but this is why it is so important to give him space and to not be too available.
Even when a man is in a relationship, he really does still value freedom and independence, so make sure that you show him that you can be independent as well (even if you live together). The busier you are with things that are making you happy, the more inclined he will be to want to be a part of those things. If you drop everything for him all the time, then it looks like your life revolves around him and unfortunately, that is not an attractive characteristic and it damages the seduction process.
Human beings have a terrible tendency of taking things for granted that are readily available to them, so I encourage you to focus on making your own life better and don’t be too predictable! This is one of the best ways to protect yourself from winding up with a broken heart.
When it comes to how to make your boyfriend miss you more, you need to make sure that you aren’t always around and that you aren’t at his beck and call all the time. Just remember that you need to give him the opportunity to miss you.
And while you are doing this, pay attention to the way that you interact with him…