This one should be a no-brainer but it’s worth mentioning. If your guy is not chasing other women, if he’s faithful to you, and if your relationship is not something he hides from people, then it’s serious.
On the other hand, if he’s still “on the prowl” and he doesn’t want to be exclusive with you or put labels on your relationship, then he isn’t ready to think about marriage. A man who’s reading for marriage isn’t going to be trying to keep his options open!
How long does it take a man to know he wants to marry you and how to increase the odds?
If you’ve been reading the signs I went over above and they haven’t been resonating with you and your relationship, I don’t want you to panic. It typically takes men a bit longer to be ready for marriage than it takes women, and this is all perfectly natural. If you’re feeling insecure in your relationship, I encourage you to download our brand new product on battling insecurity and overcome it once and for all. To access it, all you have to do is click here.
The worst thing you could do is to put pressure on your man if he doesn’t seem to be ready to think about marrying you. Men place high value on their independence and if they feel like they’re being forced to give it up, they will be very likely to pull away.
So instead of doing anything that would make him feel pressured, it is better to create an environment in your relationship that makes him feel excited and inspired to be with you. This means that you both need to be living fulfilling lives, and it’s important to guard your relationship against emotional dependency. Emotional dependency is one of the biggest relationship killers that exist.
I encourage you to therefore make sure that you’re living a life that you’re genuinely proud of. Devote time to your passions and your hobbies, focus on your physical and emotional health through exercise and mediation, spend time with friends and family members that bring you joy. Give yourself personal and professional goals to work towards on a daily basis, and you’ll start to feel so happy in your own life, that your boyfriend is going to want to play a greater role in all of it. If you’re feeling insecure, I encourage you to download our brand new product on battling insecurity. To access it, all you have to do is click here.
Please don’t hesitate to reach out to me or a member of my team if you would like one on one guidance in developing a life that makes you deeply happy and in turn makes your boyfriend want to get more invested in a relationship with you. All you have to do is click here to reach out to us, and we can set up a coaching session to help you transform your relationship in a meaningful way.
So, to summarize, if you’re looking for the signs that he wants to marry you, look for these things:
• He does not shy away from the topic of marriage
• He factors you in to his future plans
• You find out that he’s been asking about your marriage preferences
• He discusses having children and/or getting married
• He makes himself available for you and gives you his time and attention
• He wants to get to know your family and wants you to get to know his
• He is selfless and is regularly doing things to show you how much he cares
• He tries to meet your unspoken needs
• And you know that you are a priority in his life
If he isn’t ready yet, there is no need to worry. These things develop with time as you lay out a solid foundation. We are here to help every step of the way, so don’t hesitate to reach out!
I sincerely wish you all the best in life and love,
Your coach when you’re looking for the signs he wants to get married,